friendships are hard. i've always known this, but the past year has proved that over and over again. it takes work on both ends for a friendship to stay exactly that - a friendship. i'm pretty tired of trying to keep certain people in my life, when they make no effort to want to be a part of it. i realize that everyone has their own busy lives to lead, but is it really that difficult to call or text or meet for a drink? apparently it is....
i'm think that i'm going to be finished trying with certain individuals. it sucks because i'll still always want to call them up or text them when something happens, i'll still want to try go out with them on those rare nights that i do go out.
we'll see how this goes. i hate the thought of losing them but i'm over feeling like i'm not worth their time.
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This made me sad. I know how you feel though (except for the texting part- I'm TERRIBLE at texting), and it can be pretty upsetting to feel like the harder you try to hang out with somebody, the more it seems they're holding the heel of their hand to your forehead to keep you back. You are just sweet as pie and I know you'll only do what's best, but I hope this works out either way for you! AND I need to see you soon because you still need your little owl holder! :)
and i still need you give you your VERY belated birthday gifts! let's do something soon, yes?!?
You don't need to give me a thing! But I would love to do something. OOH we should go on a Granny's Attic adventure! I need to try to switch my schedule around so I have weekends off again so that can actually be a possibility, because I still just have Mon, Thurs & Fri off. But yes please, and soon!
ohhhh granny's is such a fantastic idea! i may or may not have found part of your present there...
i'm pretty sure that i'm getting off work early on friday, maybe if chan-diggity is over her death flu we can make a trek out there?!?
I used to be concerned about losing friends. And I have tried to get back in touch with a few that I've lost over the years, but it always turns out the same. I pretty much keep the small group of friends that I have and thats about it. Most people make it too much of a hassle to be friends with them, and who wants that?
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